How your children will do is the number one concern of people who are considering the question: Is my marriage over? When children’s lives are involved, all Pre-Divorce Coaching sessions with Robin are child-centered.
For those who choose to stay married, you will need confidence and a good feeling about the decision to stay married. Those who decide to get divorced need a lot of courage. Whichever way you choose, Robin will help get focused, be prepared, and act bravely.
When a marriage is broken, you can be sure that other relationships will also feel the effects of its brokenness. Maintaining your social network, or building a brand new one, will provide positive energy for your hard work ahead. Robin can help.
I struggled for years trying to figure out whether I should leave my husband. All my friends told me to go, but they never helped me figure out how. I worried so much about the money. I just couldn’t make a move. Robin asked a lot of important questions in our coaching sessions and figured out some good ways for me to make money. Working with Robin gave me the confidence to get a divorce and move on with my life.
My husband and I tried three different marriage counselors. None of them helped. Robin’s approach was different. She helped us really see what our lives would look like, with three little kids, if we got divorced. Our coaching with Robin was mostly about figuring out how to separate the solvable from the unsolvable problems and tame our chaos. We decided to stay together. So far, so good!
I was so lonely and unhappy in my marriage. I had a beautiful daughter, though, and didn’t want to hurt her by getting a divorce. When I finally saw a divorce attorney, he was way too aggressive. I hired Robin to help me figure out a way to get a divorce, but not start a war. She gave me a lot of helpful perspective about kids and divorce that I never thought of before. Thanks to Robin’s coaching, I was able to separate from my wife, take the pressure off our marriage, and our daughter is doing great.